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This is a site about building a happy life, and getting there with simple shortcuts.

To be happy we’ve got to master some important adult skills—how to stay close and intimate in our marriage or long term relationship, how to set up a life that’s creative and fulfilling, and how to manage our money with easy clarity so we have peace in our days.  Then we’ve got to find what thrills our heart, and do it.  Is it yoga?  Painting?  Music?  Travel?  We’ll each have our own quest.  But learning the skills of building a happy life doesn’t have to be hard work. There are shortcuts to getting there. That’s what this site is all about—building a simple, rock-solid bedrock for a life that we love—full of creativity, fulfillment, intimacy and ease.


The Path to a Happy Marriage

When we think about a happy marriage we often think it’s a matter of simple compatibility—and let’s just say it—good luck.  On the flip side, we’re constantly being told that “marriage is hard work,” and in our popular culture, we’re barraged with articles with titles like, “10 tips to heighten your love/sex/communication in marriage,” as […]

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Sexual Devotion in Marriage: Not a Mental Exercise

It means, plain and simply, that if we want to experience the adoration of a lover’s devotion, then we have to give it. We have to practice adoring our partner, find the things we love about him or her and celebrate those things, and then, be constant in searching out a love experience based on […]

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Marriage: Don’t Let Your Sensual Love Die Off

The stuff of easy sensuality is the heart of our sexual glue, and it’s at the center of the closeness that we’re long to experience together.

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