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This is a site about building a happy life, and getting there with simple shortcuts.

To be happy we’ve got to master some important adult skills—how to stay close and intimate in our marriage or long term relationship, how to set up a life that’s creative and fulfilling, and how to manage our money with easy clarity so we have peace in our days. But learning these skills doesn’t have to be hard work. There are shortcuts to getting there. That’s what this site is all about—building a simple, rock-solid bedrock for a life that we love, full of creativity, fulfillment, intimacy and ease.


Fun: the Sensual Glue that Builds Desire in Marriage

We’re all busy.  That’s just life on earth right now.  And each year—with the pervasive yet overburdening power of the internet—we give ourselves more things to do:  more ways to market, spin, connect, and work the room of not only our work life, but our social life as well. We’re screen-focused, for sure, and though […]

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Prowess: The Sexual and Sensual Gift of Married Love

In my last blog we set up the idea that we can have a joyfully monogamous relationship in our marriage.  We agreed that in order to have the love affair we’re really longing for with our partner, we’ve got to give up certain engrained myths that we’ve been schooled in. These include: 1) the ‘hot’ […]

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‘Why Aren’t We Ever in the Mood?’ A Timeline for Sex in Marriage

‘Why aren’t we ever in the mood?’ A timeline for sex in marriage

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